Paul WRONG SO WRONG . IF you love her don't be afraid to show it and let the world know Slip a box of chocolates under her pillow when its just an ordinary day but take one out . She will see the funny side . Take her shopping help her pick her underwear and pay for it . Yes you will shock her I do it do I care what others think, do I hell . But tell her you bought them so you are going to remove them . Love is a two way thing . Don't be a Southern tight arse you cannot buy love , it grows . Chuck her on the bed and snog her like you did when you where a young lad . Now you know why Southern women like us Geordie lads . You are coming over as tight as two coats of paint . You only live once ENJOY IT. Also its not what you buy its the way that you go about it and handle it. somestick