I've got a copy of this excellent book - the more recent editions are £80 or so now but include all the ECU, CANBUS and EV that we don't need in the trads.
Plenty to read so herself in silent mode could be seen as an advantage
2009 4/4 Sport Henrietta 1999 Indigo Blue +8 2009 4/4 Sport Green prev 1993 Con Green +8 prev