Sncere condolences for all your losses. It is a bastard of a disease but it's not all doom and gloom and there are success stories. My 2 1/2 year clear the other day!
Good luck to all going through and going alongside cancer, but remember we are now over the 50% of survive rather than not and long may the great work that all involved (doctors researchers nurses carers fund raisers and others) carry on with our support and gratitude.
Apologies for thread hijack.