I prefer the look of the Minilites, but OTOH 165s are a much better choice for a 4/4 as they preserve that lovely nimble checkable feel you get. Fatter tyres make the car feel heavier and more planted.
If the Minilites are 5.5" rims I'd go with them but fit a narrower tyre. You can put 165s on that size rim but it might look and feel a bit silly, I'd go for 185s personally. If they are not 6" rims then still go for 185s.
In any case keep both sets of wheels and change them as the mood takes you!
