Many years ago in a previous (working) life my company sponsored a semi pro football team located near Manchester. One of our 'commitments' was sponsorship of a tour to Scandinavia - same involved an overnight ferry from Helsinki to Stockholm. We had a tour escort along with us from the travel company involved, she was an attractive lass full of life and loved being around 'the boys'. On the ferry crossing after much drink was consumed a similar event took place, it was even filmed, the difference is she wanted it to happen, encouraged it to happen, enjoyed it and didn't cry 'rape' the next day. We only learnt of the event the following morning, many of the boys participated in one way or another, as senior members of the group it is safe to say we were shocked and very disappointed in both the players and the girl in question, but in their mind they did nothing wrong, legally they are correct morally maybe not....the girl didn't even seem to be particularly embarrassed the next day and even milked the attention. She continued to escort the group thoroughly professionally for the duration of the trip. My points are, no matter how much we would like to place all young women on a pedestal not all of them are made of sugar and spice and all things nice, some have the same dark desires as young men.
You have made my point very well. The difference in the Evans case is that the girl made a complaint even though she sent a text the following day describing on what she would spend the compensation. No trauma there then.
