Welcome Dave. You are in a similar place where I started, back in 2008. The only difference being that my V8 experience was in an MGB.
All I would add is that you should also try a Series 1 V6 Roadster from the period 2004 - 2006 before you decide.
I wouldn't worry too much about the Aero's - they are for old blokes who like all the frills........