I have to say I think Hamwich has nailed it 100%. It's less about the car, more of the relationship in your head and what makes you happy.
From what I read into your posts, you'll never be happy unless you find something wrong in the world.
When it comes to modern cars, I have to say electronic overkill ruins it for me. When I have to study to turn something off, or forever be told by the car it disagrees with me, then it ceases to be fun.
Back to basics is always good, although I will always forgive heated seats..