Don’t buy new, try a few rides in other owners cars (as Graham suggests) talk to them and if at the end of that process they have convinced you that they are for you, buy a used car. If when you try it at anytime, then go and find something else more appropriate. But don’t wait, as another poster said, life’s too short, I’m on my sixth over twenty five years of ownership. A plus four 4 Seater, four plus 8’s, 3.5, 3.9 and two 4.6s and a plus 4 two seater.
All different, surprisingly, and all used.
But never regretted not owning a car from new.
Good hunting