Vspec don't listen to them. I'd go for a nice solid colour with a contrasting interior. But with a view to considering what else you can do to bedazzle the car to make it your own.
Decals, strips and stickers can all be had for a small sum of money, but most importantly can be changed as and when you feel a need.
I'm currently working on amendments to my version 1 graphic package and a few other exterior mods.
Looking at adding some more decals along these lines to mine in the near future