Yes Graeme I am reading this and I dont like what I am seeing I feel horrid inside and feel guilty that because I wrote what I was told and took as the total truth the person who told me I would trust as 100% honest. I have pulled Gerwyn into a situation that he has now had to drop his disguise that hangs heavy on me and I am sorry for that . I joined TM to enjoy the exchange of words have a laugh make harmless fun of myself and others in the hope that I did not offend its slipped at times . But we must all think that its not like speaking in the pub where we can see and hear it, we read it as our brain see's it and may come over as harsh even nasty . I am in one sence gratefull that the moderators have let us have our say and in another sence wish it had been stopped but that is up to Simon , Brian, and Andy they work out when to pull the pug. I remember my late dad an ex army man telling me " If you are man enough to dish it out boy , you should be man enough to take it " . I asked then what do you do when it over . " You say sorry boy " and what if the other person wont take it , " You have said sorry if he is not man enough to take thats his fault not yours you have said sorry ". He then said something that has stuck in my head for years " It takes a strong man to say sorry , but an even stronger man to accept it " .
I think I have said enough I now feel tearfull thinking of my late dad. I dont want to write or say anymore on this subject.
J.T.


Originally Posted By Digimap
Originally Posted By Boshly
The stages are probably more akin to those we go through when meeting our better halves, the thrill of the chase, the twinge of the heart strings when you see a reciprocation and the euphoria of falling head over heels. The period of ownership is then similar to the deep love of a good woman after the initial 'excitement' and adrenalin has worn off. A good solid affection and bond and of knowing you are both meant to be together, fully respecting each others wants and needs.



You reading this rubbishadvice JTL

(Just in case you thought you had steered it back to topic Boshly)

But I agree the thrill of the hunt is usually in the chase

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