BtG Boshly,
Customs are different here. Suddenly asking a crowd whether someone present is being "rude and disrespectful" would be seen as an insult. If it is a minor beef, we contact the person privately unless we want to start a fight.
What do your initials stand for? I can call you by your first name if you'd like.
What part of Canada are you from?
Dan
You can call me Boshly, Andy or even Darling if the mood takes you

If you look back I didn't ask whether you "were being rude and disrespectful" I asked if anyone else also found it "
a tad disrespectful and rude" (you missed a bit out

) pedantic maybe but definitely different to how you are portraying it (I just can't seem to put my finger on who you remind me of

).
Oh, and I am from the London part of Canada