I understand your care home bit I do it every night except Sunday . You become clock work, love, repect, you name it . As its so clockwork you care little what others think and take each day as it comes . I feel everyone should have Lasting Power of Attorney for their parents wealth and health along with a will . It may not be what everyone wants including yourself at the time , but it may stop others making or taking decisions that you dont want and can do nothing about .

Sore point as y/day I was saying why the hell should my wife and I work like hell to help our daughter and if we take ill they TRY to take our homes off us and our pension etc etc . When the can't work won't work benefits under class scum sit all day drinking and smoking have Satellite huge TV's and a National Health to run after them then a home to put them in . About time the goverment woke up and bring back WORK HOUSES to make them earn there keep or starve . thumbs