I always liked telling people the truth if confronted by a knob. I would say I’m hard of hearing but you seem to be hard of thinking ! It stumps or truly annoys …..a winner of a repost ? Best to you all and don’t let differences of opinion boil over….. MM PS If my wife gets stressed during the run up to Christmas ( not this year as away at likely new in laws - daughters wedding in summer was a fake wedding - don’t ask) I say to her……….”it’s just a Sunday roast with a cracker” . She then feels totally calm about it and in control !