I thought you might like a womans perspective on this.JTL is 10 years older than me but when we met I thought he was 24 and he thought I was 20.My parents were not too keen on me dating someone 10 years older than me but he made me happy and we had a lot of fun together, and still do. We have known each other for 39 years and been happily married for 32 years this month. Yes we do have the odd disagreemnet but then who doesn't.So my advice is if this young lady makes you happy than go for it you have got nothing to loose and possibly a lot to gain. thumbs