I agree with you and your wife Kirk. The doubled-up black stripes make it look too "heavy". You would think the factory would have an agreed upon template to follow. Seems as though your car is likely the first to go into production with the pinstripe option. Sorry you have to be the guinea pig.
Let's hope getting it right doesn't cause too much more of a delay.
Are you coordinating with the factory through your dealer? You're lucky to have this inside contact sending you real time production photos.