"So what you're saying is that it's OK for the Gov to put me at serious risk, but I'm not allowed to make a personal decision about the slight risk posed to me by my friends? Probably the most dangerous aspect of our breakfast is the bike ride to and from the cafe. Two weeks ago, one of our number swapped his motorbike for a bicycle, and got smashed up by a car driver doing a sudden U turn in the road....."
No, I was saying one is out of your control but one is a choice. And that we all choose the risks we take. It's not a criticism, I'm alluding to the fact that we all do take some risks and we consider those OK but we don't take into account that when other people take their risks, they too think theirs are OK.
Anyway, I repeat, I'm not criticising your decisions nor anyone else's so I'll shut up about it now.