David, your point serves to emphasise my thoughts.
Live today, because you have no idea what tomorrow may bring.

My sister had a mild stroke 5 years ago, it has left her with some issues, but nothing life changing, so I can only hope that your wife makes the best of life. It is fantastic that she supports your Plus Four experiences, it is so sad that she cannot fully share them.

Yes, the decision is mine, there is no urgency. Tarka has been a great friend for us both and we should never forget that.
We have an ageing horse that is retired, a 600kg pet, really. Many would put him down but we will not, he has given us years of fun, so he deserves his retirement.

Peter,
66, 2016 Porsche Boxster S
No longer driving Tarka, the 2014 Plus 8...